This is pretty horrifying, thanks for writing about this.

I've had several arguments/debates recently with men who think lying to get sex is not rape. They think only the most violent examples constitute rape, and those times when they lied and deceived a woman don't count "because everyone lies to get something". Yeah that's rape. These guys are telling on themselves every time they argue with me about clear definitions that are not up for debate. The definition that rape is sex without consent is not an opinion to be argued with, it's a literal fact. Yet still they argue.

We still have a long way to go.