One of the best articles I've read about the Autistic experience, I relate so much to this. You've made so many good points but it's impractical for me to highlight the whole article.

I sometimes struggle to see Allistic constructs and decisions in a positive way, there's so much unnecessary dysfunction and short-sightedness in this neurotypically-sanctioned society, and too many close-minded people. I know Allistics are good for something, I just struggle to remember what! I do feel sorry for neurotypicals, they seem to have a tendency to be enslaved to whatever nonsensical rules and norms some ruling psychopath thought up, and everyone else enforced. But if you ask them why, they have no clue! Their lives are absurd, but they think Autistic people are somehow deficient!

The gods are laughing at us, and I'm starting to get the joke :)