I relate to a lot here, I only really enjoy sex with someone I care about. I'm currently single and missing the intimacy tbh. When you say oral orgasms are elite, do you mean they are the best, or that there's not many men that can do this for you? I'm curious because I've been told (and I can usually tell) I'm pretty good at getting a woman off orally (I love doing it tbh). I always wondered if other men are good at going down on women or if it's a rare skill? I always assumed men generally give head, at about the same ratio as women give head.
Edit: Being honest, if going down on a woman well is a rare skill, it will be an ego boost for me! I studied up on techniques with my first serious girlfriend, and we practiced together obviously, which I think is the genesis of my "aptitude"! Plus I just ask women what they like, listen to their answers and try stuff out.