I appreciate you not attacking or insulting me personally, it's more than the other male commenters on this thread have managed. I sense you're trying to debate authentically.

You're approaching this from the wrong direction. For example, if a black person in the States says 'All white people are racist', then we should listen because they would know. Similarly, if women are telling you 'all men are violent', they are probably right. You're an outsider to women's issues, yet you talk like you know it all. That's your mistake. You clearly don't know or empathise with what women have to deal with every day. You need to listen more, talk less.

Please read this article by a great writer on here, he's making much better points than I can:

https://medium.com/bitchy/men-heres-how-to-get-feminists-to-listen-to-you-fa6bb4166d94