Agree with fatherhood being hard, it took me to the brink. But my wife had it way harder - women take the brunt of it. I completely disagree with your comment about feminism - feminism is the reason you're able to talk about how hard it is to be a father. Without feminism, you'd be told to 'suck it up' or some such bullshit.

So just tell us your story, I'll listen with no judgement. And please stop bashing feminism.